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Belakangan lagi suka nulis-nulis lagi di note handphone, hehe :

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Girl With An Attitude

Quote :

 "Giving is connected with the heart ; it is connected with love. When you love, when you give and share, you will have prosperity.."

-Master Choa Kok Sui-

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Girl With An Attitude

The Three L's.

Remember the three L's : life, love and light.

Life is given to you ; you are alive. Light is present, but you have to make a bridge between life and light. That bridge is love. 

With these three L's, you can make a total way of life, a way of being, a new way of being. 

-Osho-

"Nothing good is born from lies. And greatness is not what you think.."

Judul postingan ini merupakan salah satu quote favorit saya dari film Wonder Woman 1984, yang baru saja saya tonton weekend kemarin. Saya hanya bisa menghela nafas ketika selesai menonton film ini. Tanpa bermaksud memberikan spoiler, tapi sungguh film ini menurut saya luar biasa bagusnya. Dengan sentuhan drama cinta yang membuat hearfell, dan juga aksi sang Wonder Woman yang menunjukan power nya tanpa harus terlihat "perkasa".

Pada scene pertama film ini, sudah sukses membuat saya terpana dan terkagum-kagum dengan pemandangan Amazon yang indah dan juga aksi beberapa prajurit wanita Amazon yang terlihat cekatan dan 'terdidik' dengan baik.

Gal Gadot sendiri memerankan tokoh Wonder Woman memang sudah sangat cocok. Pada film Wonder Woman (2017), saya memang  suka dengan pembawaannya yang powerfull namun tetap fierce. Tanpa harus menunjukkan gerak-gerik yang sexy dan seakan-akan hanya mengandalkan penampilan. 

Ok, kembali membahas mengenai Wonder Woman 1984 yang mengambil suasana tahun 1984 lengkap dengan penari break dance, baju fitness yang colorful dan wanita nya masih menggunakan stocking, parachute pant, sepatu nike cortez dan rambut wanita dengan model wavy yang mengembang. Patty Jenkins sebagai director dan screen writer memang benar-benar memperhatikan detil. Sehingga kita ikut terbawa dalam suasana tahun '80-an.

Yang saya suka dari film ini adalah, membahas bahwa kejujuran itu merupakan suatu hal yang sangat penting didalam hidup. Tidak usah berusaha dan berpura-pura menjadi sosok yang bukan diri kamu sendiri hanya karena ingin dianggap. Karena sesuatu yang orisinil merupakan suatu kebanggaan yang seharusnya ditonjolkan. Hehe, itu aja sih yang bisa saya ceritakan tentang film ini.

Sisa nya, kalian tonton sendiri yah 😋

Thank you for reading!

Love, 

Girl With An Attitude

Pseudobulbar.

"Is it just me, 
or is it getting crazier out there..?

Sepenggal kata-kata dari film Joker yang dimainkan dengan sangat apik oleh Joaquin Phoenix. Well, bisa dibilang saya suka dengan film Joker yang ini. Alur ceritanya bagus, akting sang pemeran utama oke, banyak sekali quotes yang terdengar enak, dan lain-lain. 

Meskipun Joker bisa dibilang cukup psycho, namun masih dalam batas wajar, haha. Maksudnya, dia berbuat jahat hanya terhadap orang yang jahat kepadanya. Ya semacam dendam.

Cerita Senja

-Free Hearty-

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Girl With An Attitude

Dunia Dewasa

@ovisiregar

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Girl With An Attitude

5 Years of Marriage

"We loved with a love that was more than love". 

(Edgar Allan Poe)

Tidak terasa umur pernikahan saya dengan Krishna sudah menginjak di angka 5 tahun pada bulan Februari 2019 kemarin. Krishna tidak hanya sebagai suami, namun sebagai sahabat yang luar biasa selalu hadir kapan saja saya butuhkan. Hanya dengan dia saya bisa berkeluh kesah dengan berbagai reaksi. Reaksi sambil menangis, reaksi sambil tertawa sampai terpingkal-pingkal, bahkan reaksi mengeluh jika saya sedang kesal dengannya.

Quote :

"Semoga tidak ada lagi hal-hal yang tak diinginkan terjadi dimuka bumi ini. Terutama di negeri tercinta ini, Indonesia ku sejati.." 💓

#ovisaidsomewords

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Girl With An Attitude

Quote : Merah & Biru

"Hai Merah, maukah kau menemaniku malam ini untuk mendengarkan suara kereta api nan bising ini?" tanya si Biru. 

"Baiklah, Biru. Aku akan menemanimu malam ini dan seterusnya. Asal kamu janji, perasaan kamu jangan selalu membiru seperti warna dirimu. Karena hidup terlalu indah untuk dibawa menjadi 'biru'  jawab si Merah.

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Girl With An Attitude

Some Might Say

Bisa dibilang satu bulan kemarin merupakan masa-masa sensitif saya. Karena di satu bulan kemarin ada hal yang membuat saya cukup sedih dan down. Sebelumnya saya flashback dulu ya, hihi. Jadi ceritanya, sekitar bulan Januari akhir, sebelah kiri bawah perut saya suka ngilu yang rasanya hilang dan timbul. Seperti ingin haid, namun tidak. Karena biasanya jika saya akan haid, ngilu nya hanya berkisar 3-4 hari saja. Sementara kalau ini hampir sebulan. Karena saya cukup khawatir, maka saya memutuskan untuk datang ke dokter kandungan. Dokter nya berada di salah satu Rumah Sakit di kawasan Jakarta Barat. And I really have noooo idea about the doctor. Karena saya pikir kan hanya sekedar ingin cek kenapa perut saya selalu ngilu.

A Thing Of Owl

I have to admit, for the past 5 years, I really have a thing with owl. Yes, that mysterious creature who's always awake late at night. I don't know, but I might say that owl is one of the most sexiest, clever, independent animal I have seen. And that is why sometimes I collected some things about owl. I used to have an owl necklace, an owl shirt, and lately, I have these cute owl mugs that I bought from Daiso. And also, another owl mug that I got from this milk packaging. Ha!

Because of that, I was just curious. Why am I always liking an owl? Then I Googled it, and these are the meaning why people (included me), really have a thing with owl :

What Does it Mean to Have an Owl in Your Totem?

According to Native American tradition, people with an owl in their totem are also said to be adaptable and approach life in an easy-going manner. They are often artistic and adventurous. Witty and flexible, sensitive and with a zest for life, these folks can accomplish great things. Conversely, they can get a bit self-absorbed and can hold grudges.

Do you think you have an owl in your totem? Ask yourself whether the owl has special meaning to you. Are you especially attracted to or afraid of them? Do you see them more often than other people who live nearby? If so, then owls might among your spirit guides. (source by Owl Symbolism)

So I think owl is my spirit animal. Because you know, everytime I've seen owl or bought something about owl, I feel happy. And that's not a coincidence ☺

Speaking about spirit animal, which one is yours?


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Girl With An Attitude

Relationship goals?!

When you see some couple always do something together, does it mean their relation ship good? Or like people said, 'relationship goals'? If two of them always walking together side by side, does it mean their love life is beautiful? 

To me, having a relationship goals doesn't have to do something together or always saying 'I love you', so other people can hear it. No, is not that. 

Relation ship goals to me, when you and your spouse always support each other no matter what. Always appreciate what your spouse do and have. Always take care of each other in bad and good. Always trust your spouse and have a positive thinking for them. Always listen to them when they tell you something they just did. And always have this love feeling for them. 

Krisha and I married for almost 4 years. I have to admit, we are not perfect. We do fight sometimes. But instead of hate each other, we think that we always being in love for each other. We care for each other. And that is why, we can talk about it and we feel good again. I love him no matter what. Because he is my soulmate.

Yesterday, he gave me this article that talked about marriage. Which I think the article is so good and informative for us. I have some words that I like :

• A great marriage is a long-term process — not an overnight miracle
• Working through these rough spots is an important part of growing closer. Keep in mind, however, there is nothing automatic about the process.
• Assuming rigid roles based on gender also creates an imbalance: like a husband who refuses to help with cooking or cleaning because these tasks are “woman’s work” or a wife who refuses to pick up a hammer or screwdriver because “that’s the husband’s job.” Spouses must be flexible in their roles, and willing to work together at all sorts of tasks.
• Great marriages are collaborative efforts in which both partners are dedicated to improving — as individuals and as a couple
• Every one of us have a right to want our desires fulfilled, but we must be realistic. 

So yeah, I think, if you and your spouse already have those things, then I might say 'relation ship goals!'. Because nobody is perfect, but you can make it perfect if you and your spouse always support each other.

By the way, you can read the article on this website : The Good Men Project

Be kind and always love each other! ❤

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Quote :

"Bersyukur masih bisa berpijak dengan sehat dimuka bumi ini. Masih bisa menikmati hijaunya rumput, kicauan burung, matahari terbit, dan mendengar suara nafas orang-orang tersayang. Mari kita nikmati hari, dan tersenyum" ❤

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Girl With An Attitude

Quote :

"Somehow, I really missed the old times.."



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Girl With An Attitude

Photograph.

"It's funny, when you can capture all of your moments in life.

It's the way you express what you see, and what you feel in that time.

Bad or good things, framed into your mind.

Then you put it in the squared color paper, so you can see it over and over again.

Hoping that memories will last forever.

Hoping that you can find another moment you can capture with.

Love, laugh, happiness in this life

All of that, you can save it into your memory

Because in this life, there so many good things

Just like a camera that capture moment into photograph".

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Where are you, 'baby'?

Have you ever been in the situation that you are happy with your life, but still there is something missin'? There is something you really truly want, but you still don't have it yet. That's what I feel. I feel something still not full fill yet. To have a baby. Yes, I really wanna have a baby. Krishna and I really wanna have a baby. We've been married for 3,5 years, but the baby still hasn't arrive yet, ☺.

Seeing my friends and family already have a bunch of babies and kids, sometimes it makes me sad. It makes me feel like "Ok, so when will be my turn?". Some people even can have a baby almost every year. Meanwhile, to have at least one baby, it's very difficult for me.

I just want to have a baby, and we just want to be a parents like all parents used to.

It doesn't mean I don't appreciate my life. It doesn't mean I don't be thankful enough. I love my life, yes I do. But to be a mom and to be a parents is one of my dream.

Hopefully it soon will be come true ❤

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Quote :

"Be yourself.

And you'll be the happiest person you can be ☺"


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Girl With An Attitude

Happy bday, bday boy!

"Selamat ulang tahun untuk pria yang sudah berbagi mimpi selama 3 tahun 4 bulan bersama saya dan akan terus mencapai mimpi bersama, sampai langit ini berwarna kuning dan merah jambu. Selamat ulang tahun untuk pria yang handal bermain musik, bernyanyi dan suka bermain teater. Dan selalu menghargai artinya sebuah karya seni. Selamat ulang tahun untuk pria yang saya kenal ditahun 2012, dan pada kesan pertama sudah bercerita bahwa dia pernah tidak naik kelas saat duduk dibangku sekolah. Menunjukkan bahwa dia pribadi yang jujur dan apa ada nya. Selamat ulang tahun untuk pria yang terkadang masih mempunyai mood suka berubah, namun jauh didalam lubuk hatinya dia adalah pria yang baik hati, bertanggung jawab dan kelak suatu hari akan menjadi Bapak yang luar biasa hebatnya. Terima kasih juga untuk Mama dan Papa mu, yang sudah melahirkan kamu didunia yang indah ini. Sekali lagi, selamat ulang tahun ya sayang. Semesta mendukungmu untuk selalu bahagia. Mari kita rayakan hari ini ❤"

So, I wrote that words yesterday. Because yesterday was his birthday. Once again, just wanna say happy bday to you, baby! Many happy returns ☺

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

For you, husband :

"To the world, you might be one person.
But for one person, you might be the world"
-John Lennon-

I dedicate this post for my husband, Krishna. I don't know, lately seems like he's very not in the mood. He has this mood swing that changes very fast. I don't know for sure why he's being like that. But all I know is, he might be tired. Tired for the things that makes him bored and uncreative. 

Everytime he's being like that, all I can do is to calm him. But still, he's the one who can make himself happy. Cherish his life. Make it better. And putting a smile on his face. ☺

I think the quote from John Lennon is quite good for him. I mean, eventhough he thinks he's too small in this world, well at least he has a big heart. And at least he is a 'big world' in someone's life. Yeah at least for me ❤

Love,

Girl With An Attitude