Relationship goals?!

When you see some couple always do something together, does it mean their relation ship good? Or like people said, 'relationship goals'? If two of them always walking together side by side, does it mean their love life is beautiful? 

To me, having a relationship goals doesn't have to do something together or always saying 'I love you', so other people can hear it. No, is not that. 

Relation ship goals to me, when you and your spouse always support each other no matter what. Always appreciate what your spouse do and have. Always take care of each other in bad and good. Always trust your spouse and have a positive thinking for them. Always listen to them when they tell you something they just did. And always have this love feeling for them. 

Krisha and I married for almost 4 years. I have to admit, we are not perfect. We do fight sometimes. But instead of hate each other, we think that we always being in love for each other. We care for each other. And that is why, we can talk about it and we feel good again. I love him no matter what. Because he is my soulmate.

Yesterday, he gave me this article that talked about marriage. Which I think the article is so good and informative for us. I have some words that I like :

• A great marriage is a long-term process — not an overnight miracle
• Working through these rough spots is an important part of growing closer. Keep in mind, however, there is nothing automatic about the process.
• Assuming rigid roles based on gender also creates an imbalance: like a husband who refuses to help with cooking or cleaning because these tasks are “woman’s work” or a wife who refuses to pick up a hammer or screwdriver because “that’s the husband’s job.” Spouses must be flexible in their roles, and willing to work together at all sorts of tasks.
• Great marriages are collaborative efforts in which both partners are dedicated to improving — as individuals and as a couple
• Every one of us have a right to want our desires fulfilled, but we must be realistic. 

So yeah, I think, if you and your spouse already have those things, then I might say 'relation ship goals!'. Because nobody is perfect, but you can make it perfect if you and your spouse always support each other.

By the way, you can read the article on this website : The Good Men Project

Be kind and always love each other! ❤

Love,

Girl With An Attitude