The similar thing about my dad and my husband, Krishna is : they always fondle me before I go to sleep. I remember when I was a little girl, my dad used to fondled my head, and then my feet until I fell a sleep. He did it with gentle and lots of love.
Now, when I'm married my guy, he also used to fondle my head with love. The different is, he's the one who always fell a sleep before I do.