Sometimes, We All Need Me Time

Hai!

Aku nulis ini saat lagi di salah satu coffee shop deket rumah, tiba-tiba tadi random aku pergi sendirian aja 'me time', haha. Kebetulan suami lagi ke rumah orang tua nya, dan aku pas lagi ngga ikutan. Tadinya sempat kepikiran mau berenang lagi, cuma kok ngerasa capek yaaa. Kemarin juga udah berenang kok sekitar 1 jam lebih hehe 😁

Terkadang memang kita tuh butuh banget me time. Meskipun pasangan yang sudah menikah, we all need some time to ourselves. Apalagi yang menikahnya sudah cukup lama. Karena tanpa kita sadari, kita suka lupa untuk memanjakan diri sendiri. Me time itu ngga harus selalu mewah kok. Melakukan hal-hal yang membuat kita happy aja itu udah sebuah me time loh. Kayanya waktu tuh berasa berharga banget!

 

Hai!

Belakangan lagi suka nulis-nulis lagi di note handphone, hehe :

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Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Diam Sekejap.

Hai!

Terkadang ada kalanya kita ingin menyendiri kemudian diam. Diam bukan karena marah. Diam bukan karena sedih. Tapi hanya ingin diam tak berkata.

Karena manusia memang butuh 'space' untuk tidak diajak omong dulu.

Terkadang disaat diam, inginnya hanya suasana yang tenang. Di pojokkan sepi tanpa ada seorang pun. Seakan hanya ditemani oleh keheningan.

Terkadang kita butuh mengaktifkan tombol 'Switch off', kemudian istirahat beberapa saat.

Terkadang kita butuh mundur sejenak dari gerakan aktifitas dan rutinitas. Menyerah karena sedikit lelah. Lelah karena keberisikan dengan sekitar.

Namun disaat sudah 'On' kembali, kita tinggal tersenyum dan menjalankan permainan di dalam kehidupan ini.

Ready? Get set. Go!

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Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Sandiwara.

 "Dalam hari-hari kita, sandiwara adalah hal yang biasa.

Tadinya tertawa, setelah itu diam tak berkata.

Lantas, siapa sebenarnya yang memenangkan pemeran utama?"

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Terkadang.

 "Terkadang orang yang egois selalu terlihat menang.

Sementara orang yang mengalah terlihat kalah.

Namun sebenarnya itu hanya perasaan saja.

Karena sesungguhnya, egois itu hanyalah emosi belaka.

Yang nantinya akan kalah dengan hal yang nyata.."

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Oh, Hi There!

Hi my blog! 

Setelah satu tahun lebih, akhirnya saya menulis di blog ini lagi. Padahal tulisan terakhir saya bilang bahwa akan lebih rajin menulis blog. Namun nyatanya? Hehe.. 

Apa yang bisa saya ceritakan? Ngga terlalu banyak. Yang pasti merasa bahwa diri ini semakin dewasa dan bijaksana. 

Ditambah, lebih matang dalam hal pemikiran, dan lebih damai dalam hal emosional. Katanya tahun 2024 ini saya mau mengeluarkan buku kumpulan kata? Hehe, ditunggu aja ya...masih dalam proses. 

Dalam hal pekerjaan? Yah, cukup kecewa dengan yang ada, namun sudahlah hehe.. Lucky me, I have a very good hearted girlboss now :) 

Ok then, segitu dulu ya.. mungkin besok akan menulis lagi.

Thank you for reading! 

Love, 

Girl With An Attitude

Tiga Delapan.

38 (dibaca tiga puluh delapan - sering disingkat menjadi tiga delapan) adalah sebuah angka, sistem bilangan, dan nama dari glyph yang mewakili angka tersebut. Angka ini merupakan bilangan asli di antara 37 dan 39. (wikipedia)

Saya tidak menyangka, bisa diberikan umur sampai sejauh ini. Iya, saya sudah berumur 38 tahun tepat ditanggal 8 November 2019 lalu. Perasaan senang, bangga, sedih, khawatir, bercampur aduk. Mengapa saya khawatir? Apa khawatir akan semakin keriput pada wajah? Haha, tentu tidak. Hanya saja saya khawatir, apakah saya masih diizinkan untuk bisa menginjak umur ke 39, 40 dan seterusnya? Semoga ya 💓

Yang pasti ulang tahun saya kemarin sangat berkesan, karena saya diberikan kejutan oleh teman-teman kantor. Meja saya dihias-hias dengan demikian cantik. Kemudian saya diberikan donat lucu berbentuk inisial, heheh. Bahagia rasanya!

Semua mendoakan yang baik, dan ikut merasakan kebahagiaan saya. Apapun itu doanya, saya ikut mendoakan kalian semua, bahwa kalian akan selalu dilindungi oleh Tuhan YME, diberikan kesehatan, keberkahan dan umur yang panjang. Amin.

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Quote :

"Semoga tidak ada lagi hal-hal yang tak diinginkan terjadi dimuka bumi ini. Terutama di negeri tercinta ini, Indonesia ku sejati.." 💓

#ovisaidsomewords

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Quote : Merah & Biru

"Hai Merah, maukah kau menemaniku malam ini untuk mendengarkan suara kereta api nan bising ini?" tanya si Biru. 

"Baiklah, Biru. Aku akan menemanimu malam ini dan seterusnya. Asal kamu janji, perasaan kamu jangan selalu membiru seperti warna dirimu. Karena hidup terlalu indah untuk dibawa menjadi 'biru'  jawab si Merah.

Love,
Girl With An Attitude

Good to having you, dear 2017!

Today's the last day on 2017. And hello 2018!

Wish me luck for everything. Have a bless one, peeps ❤


Love,
Girl With An Attitude

Quote :

"Bersyukur masih bisa berpijak dengan sehat dimuka bumi ini. Masih bisa menikmati hijaunya rumput, kicauan burung, matahari terbit, dan mendengar suara nafas orang-orang tersayang. Mari kita nikmati hari, dan tersenyum" ❤

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Quote :

"Somehow, I really missed the old times.."



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Girl With An Attitude

Photograph.

"It's funny, when you can capture all of your moments in life.

It's the way you express what you see, and what you feel in that time.

Bad or good things, framed into your mind.

Then you put it in the squared color paper, so you can see it over and over again.

Hoping that memories will last forever.

Hoping that you can find another moment you can capture with.

Love, laugh, happiness in this life

All of that, you can save it into your memory

Because in this life, there so many good things

Just like a camera that capture moment into photograph".

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Quote :

"Be yourself.

And you'll be the happiest person you can be ☺"


Love,
Girl With An Attitude

Quote :

When the day has gone, who's going to blame it?

Tell me baby, do you afraid of tomorrow?

The sun keep shining, and I will keep trying

Whenever there's a will there's also a way

Hop..hop..to where you want

Seems like everything won't tearing apart

You know I love you and I always will

Perhaps everything we want will becoming real

-Ovi Siregar-

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

"A Raincoat of Mine"

So I guess this rain won't last forever

From yesterday till tomorrow, surely do will stop

The water fell, fell into the ground

The sound of the wind makes me wound

Can you tell me when the rain will stop?

So I can see the sunshine on your face, and feel the brighter in my days

To the rain I wrote this words :

"Everytime you came, I wore  a raincoat of mine with no ashame"

But would you stop dear beautiful rain?

And then leave me without any pain

By : Ovi Siregar


Love,
Girl With An Attitude

The state of being happy

What do you think about happy itself?

Do you happy on your own?

What doesn't mean about live your own happiness?

Still cannot figure it out about how happiness will be always in your days.

What? Tell me. What's the state of being happy?

Love,
Girl With An Attitude

Book talk : "Letters To A Young Poet"

So, from this moment on, I'm going to make a section about book review. It's called 'Book Talk'. And the first book I'd like to review is "Letters To A Young Poet" from an Austrian poet, Rainer Maria Rilke.. The first reason why I bought this book is because from 'Penguin Classics'. You know, some old book publisher that always printed books from William Shakespeare, Mark Twain, Jane Austen, Edgar Allan Poe and many more. 

The book itself is about Rainer the writer, wrote some messages or letters to a young man. This young man is going to enter the military. And he also loves to write. He sent letters to Rainer to ask some questions and for guidance to his stories. So it's like, Rainer was his idol and he always wanted to know, did Rainer likes his stories and poems? Both of them did the correspondence for about five years. And all of Rainer letters, made the young man became a good person. 

I really love how Rainer wrote his words. Very simple yet poetic. It makes me feel the way the young man felt. 

"Try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language. Don't search for the answers, which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live with them. And the point is to live everything. Live the questions now"

-Rainer Maria Rilke-

Love,

Girl With An Attitude 

Teenage life

"Bringing back the memories,
about how teenage life was so amazing!"
-Ovi-

It's good when you know one of your favorite Indonesian movie have the sequel. I mean, c'mon guys, who doesn't know Ada Apa Dengan Cinta?, right?  Thanks to Mira Lesmana and Riri Riza, whom made the sequel for that movie. 

Last night, I watched the movie with Krishna. And I felt very very nervous. I can imagine how this movie came back after 14 years. The first was on 2002. And I was still at college. More skinny and more younger. Believe it or not, when I saw one of the scene, that Cinta found the "Aku" poem book by Chairil Anwar, I felt really, hmm..I don't know, maybe touched! It brings back the memories. The first time when Cinta and Rangga felt love. 

Thank God the sequel is also good. More beautiful I think. I still can feel the chemistry between two people feels love, missing each other and sad. And the more important thing is, the kissing scene was uncensored. Give some applause for that, hehe.

Overall, I feel so happy about the movie. And also Krishna. He thinks this is one of the best Indonesian movie, hihi. 

Well, I believe that some things are not change at all. Eventhough the person is change. The ages runs out. The physical maybe is not attracted anymore. But the love will never change. The love is still in the right heart. Forever.

Yes, teenage life was so amazing.Life at the early age 20 was unbelievably beautiful. I am blessed that I had mine :)

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

#OviSaidSomeWords

Ok, maybe someday soon I'm going to write some poet or quotes book like Diana Rikasari did. Yes, maybe I was inspired by her. Because I really loves writing and I love how words can describes something beautiful :

"Lay your sleeping head on me, my love.
Then starts your dream about catching the stars in the sky.
Goodnight!"
(24 April 2016)


"What I love most about us is because 
we always express what we feel"
(22 April 2016)


"A good breakfast is when you eat it with lots of love
and feel bless of what you have. Happy Monday!"
(4 April 2016)


"Sleep my love. So I can change your dream
into reality"
(5 February 2016)


"This is life sometimes. Complicated. Chaos.
Dizzy. But some things are last forever"
(5 February 2016)


"How I love to be more silent lately.
Just to sip a coffee and reminiscing everything"
(14 January 2016)


"Be like the flower that always blossoms and beautiful everytime.
So you can feel how wonderful life is"
(10 January 2016)


"Dear love, take me to the wonderland.
So I can feel the beauty of the wonderland"
(3 January 2016)


"People said that if you're not in a good mood, 
you should eat something sweet.
Because life is too sweet to be wasted!"
(2 December 2015)


"If only I could be triple,
I would be here, there, and everywhere"
(29 August 2015)


"Life is a colorful journey!"
(29 August 2015)


"Sometimes I wonder, what if the world turns into black and white?
Maybe I couldn't see the green in the trees. The blue in the sky.
And the rainbow in your eyes"
(22 August 2015)



Love,
Girl With An Attitude