Friday, October 20, 2017

So Peaceful

Cooking is one of a thing that I cannot deal with. I mean, I can only cook something simple like pancakes, cupcakes, fried rice, fried noodle and french toast. There is nooo way I can cook amazing food like pizza, dumpling, or any main course that really really hard to make. 

So, I just wanna tell you, that I am sooo in love with this cooking channel on Yotube name Peaceful Cuisine. This guy from Japan always cooked something good, and he also made the video with a very great concept, great angle, and great filters. And he always made the videos with two concepts. One is the video with a music background, and one video is the sounds of the things when he cooked. So genius! You have to see those videos, because I know you will like it :

When you see the videos, you feel like you also there with him, watching him live cooking something. And waiting for him to share the food with you. Haha ❤

Girl With An Attitude

A Thing Of Owl

I have to admit, for the past 5 years, I really have a thing with owl. Yes, that mysterious creature who's always awake late at night. I don't know, but I might say that owl is one of the most sexiest, clever, independent animal I have seen. And that is why sometimes I collected some things about owl. I used to have an owl necklace, an owl shirt, and lately, I have these cute owl mugs that I bought from Daiso. And also, another owl mug that I got from this milk packaging. Ha!

Because of that, I was just curious. Why am I always liking an owl? Then I Googled it, and these are the meaning why people (included me), really have a thing with owl :

What Does it Mean to Have an Owl in Your Totem?

According to Native American tradition, people with an owl in their totem are also said to be adaptable and approach life in an easy-going manner. They are often artistic and adventurous. Witty and flexible, sensitive and with a zest for life, these folks can accomplish great things. Conversely, they can get a bit self-absorbed and can hold grudges.

Do you think you have an owl in your totem? Ask yourself whether the owl has special meaning to you. Are you especially attracted to or afraid of them? Do you see them more often than other people who live nearby? If so, then owls might among your spirit guides. (source by Owl Symbolism)

So I think owl is my spirit animal. Because you know, everytime I've seen owl or bought something about owl, I feel happy. And that's not a coincidence ☺

Speaking about spirit animal, which one is yours?

Girl With An Attitude

Tuesday, October 17, 2017

Relationship goals?!

When you see some couple always do something together, does it mean their relation ship good? Or like people said, 'relationship goals'? If two of them always walking together side by side, does it mean their love life is beautiful? 

To me, having a relationship goals doesn't have to do something together or always saying 'I love you', so other people can hear it. No, is not that. 

Relation ship goals to me, when you and your spouse always support each other no matter what. Always appreciate what your spouse do and have. Always take care of each other in bad and good. Always trust your spouse and have a positive thinking for them. Always listen to them when they tell you something they just did. And always have this love feeling for them. 

Krisha and I married for almost 4 years. I have to admit, we are not perfect. We do fight sometimes. But instead of hate each other, we think that we always being in love for each other. We care for each other. And that is why, we can talk about it and we feel good again. I love him no matter what. Because he is my soulmate.

Yesterday, he gave me this article that talked about marriage. Which I think the article is so good and informative for us. I have some words that I like :
  • A great marriage is a long-term process — not an overnight miracle
  • Working through these rough spots is an important part of growing closer. Keep in mind, however, there is nothing automatic about the process.
  • Assuming rigid roles based on gender also creates an imbalance: like a husband who refuses to help with cooking or cleaning because these tasks are “woman’s work” or a wife who refuses to pick up a hammer or screwdriver because “that’s the husband’s job.” Spouses must be flexible in their roles, and willing to work together at all sorts of tasks.
  • Great marriages are collaborative efforts in which both partners are dedicated to improving — as individuals and as a couple
  • Every one of us have a right to want our desires fulfilled, but we must be realistic. 
So yeah, I think, if you and your spouse already have those things, then I might say 'relation ship goals!'. Because nobody is perfect, but you can make it perfect if you and your spouse always support each other.

By the way, you can read the article on this website : The Good Men Project

Be kind and always love each other! ❤

Girl With An Attitude

Monday, October 2, 2017

A Little Massage Will Always Help

Everytime I feel tired or my body feels hurt with this stomach and feet cramps, I always have a massage from Krishna. He has a good hands for massage.

I feel relaxed and sleepy everytime he massaged me ☺

I never knew, a little massage will always help for my mood and mind. 

Especially a little massage from him ❤

Girl With An Attitude