Give yourself an applause

I, sometimes feel like that I'm weird. I'm kinda quirky and have a very complicated mind, and sometimes I really cannot handle it. People say that I'm a very calm person. Yes, I am a very calm person. And perhaps  I'm only mad for 6 or 7 times in my entire life. But I'm not an introvert person. I'm more like the extrovert one. The outgoing one. If I don't like something, I'll be directly say it. 

Not many people can understands me. Sometimes they said I'm too transparent. But sometimes they're wrong. I'm quit difficult and selfish. Yeah, selfish and egoistic. 

The point is, sometimes people really can underestimate you no matter what you do. People can treat you like you are nothing. People can see you with only one eye open. 

Meanwhile, the fact is you're the one that can control and manage yourself. The one that can give yourself with a high value. And give yourself an applause while the other is booing to you.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe
deserve your love and affection"
-Gautama Buddha-




Love,
Girl With An Attitude

Templates

So I was just thinking, maybe, that maybe..I will change my blog background / template on every month. Because I think I'm going to show you there are so many favorite templates that I like. And I'm going to tell you the reason why I choose the template. 

Now, I'm still using the doodles template. And I already told you the reason why I picked the template here in my philosophy opinion. Theehee..

Ok, now, I'm going to leave you with some curiosity about what or which template would I choose next month :)

Love,
Girl With An Attitude

Funny Adele!

Watching this video on my Monday morning really makes me laugh! You can see how funny Adele is. She is so humble, low profile, casual, and off course talented! I think Adele and James Corden are crazy to had karaoke together. Da bomb!

I remember I had posted about Adele here. I wrote about how talented beautiful young musician she is. And now she is still.

With her incredible and angelic voice that will make breathtaking when you hear it.

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

The science of stress

Have you ever been stress so hard and makes you want to scream? There are so many things that can make you stress. Stressful. Even we all stress almost everyday. Because of the traffic, about your work in the office, when you do argue with the loved one, when you feel tired and many more.

So why did you do when you feel stress? If I were stress, I will be eat something sweet to make my heart more calm. Or I will listen to my favorite music. Or sometimes I do meditate a little. Just to make myself more relax.

These effects of stress is not good. Well, some is good, but too much becomes bad. You have to be more struggle and relax. Don't be too sensitive. Manage yourself to be more mature and face the problems. 

If you want to know more about the science of stress and how our emotions affect our suspectibility to burbout and disease, you can check this link www.brainpickings.org.

So people, let's make ourselves more lighter and better. Throw out the stress and input the peaceful inside :)

Love,
Girl With An Attitude

Reacts

Just see those faces. The mimics and how the faces reacts about something. Pretty face became an ugly face. Happy face became a sad face. Mixed together!

Btw, yesterday, Jakarta was attacked by another bomb. Another sad news. Sigh about that. What's wrong with this world anyway? People became panic, afraid. terrified, insecure, and losing grip. 

So that's why I posted this photo, because those are the faces that we all looks like.

#KamiTidakTakut

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

Oh, so addicted!

Somehow, I really want to change my coffee addiction to another healthy drink. I mean, well yeah, who doesn't like coffee anyway? Way back then, I'm so a coffee person. Then I changed into a tea person. I collected many teas from many brands. But nowadays, I'm back into a coffee person. At least I consume 1 cup for 1-2 days. Oh my..

I like latte most than black coffee. I don't like the strong one. I like coffee with flavors such as Caramel, Hazelnut, Mint, or else. So, what can I do to stop my coffee addiction? I read on this website about Are You a Coffee Addict? , there are the best ways to stop / cut the addiction :

• Cut down or replacing the coffee number two, three, and more (thank God I'm not in this case)
• Say goodnight to your coffee earlier
• Change your routine
• Drink more water
• Regularly remind yourself why you're drinking less coffee

Hopefuly, I can change my addiction into some green tea or something. Because consume coffee it can make high blood sugar, insomnia / abnormal sleep patterns. dehydration, malnutrition, and adrenal exhaustion. (http://www.invigorate360.com/reviews/7-dangers-of-coffee-addiction/ )

So please, please, give me some applause to motivate me to stop?! :)

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

What's up with green?

I realized that lately I'm a big fan of green color! I don't know, maybe because green is so peaceful and simple. Actually, yellow and pink are my favorite colors, but somehow, green is on my mind now. I chose randomly green things for my house. The rug, the tin glasses, the tea pot, the candles, and many. And it was all very coincidences. Haha..

Green is common in nature, and also calmness. And all I can say that, I love that.

I'm going to copy paste the meaning of green from symbolism and associations perspective :

Nature, vivacity, and life

Green is the color most commonly associated in Europe and the U.S. with nature, vivacity and life. It is the color of many environmental organizations, such as Greenpeace, and of the Green Parties in Europe. Many cities have designated a garden or park as a green space, and use green trash bins and containers. A green cross is commonly used to designate pharmacies in Europe.

In China, green is associated with the east, with sunrise, and with life and growth. In Thailand, the color green is consider auspicious for those born on a Wednesday day (light green for those born at night)

Youth and inexperience

Green the color most commonly associated in Europe and the U.S. with youth. It also often is used to describe anyone young, inexperienced, probably by the analogy to immature and unripe fruit. Examples include green cheese, a term for a fresh, unaged cheese, and greenhorn, an inexperienced person.

Calm, tolerance, and the agreeable

Surveys also show that green is the color most associated with the calm, the agreeable, and tolerance. Red is associated with heat, blue with cold, and green with an agreeable temperature. Red is associated with dry, blue with wet, and green, in the middle, with dampness. Red is the most active color, blue the most passive; green, in the middle, is the color of neutrality and calm, sometimes used in architecture and design for these reasons. Blue and green together symbolize harmony and balance.

Jealousy and envy

Green is often associated with jealousy and envy. The expression "green-eyed monster" was first used by William Shakespeare in Othello: "it is the green-eyed monster which doth mock the meat it feeds on." Shakespeare also used it in the Merchant of Venice, speaking of "green-eyed jealousy."

Love and sexuality

Green today is not commonly associated in Europe and the United States with love and sexuality, but in stories of the medieval period it sometimes represented love and the base, natural desires of man. It was the color of the serpent in the Garden of Eden who caused the downfall of Adam and Eve. However, for the troubadours, green was the color of growing love, and light green clothing was reserved for young women who were not yet married.

In Persian and Sudanese poetry, dark-skinned women, called "green" women, were considered erotic. The Chinese term for cuckold is "to wear a green hat." This was because in ancient China, prostitutes were called "the family of the green lantern" and a prostitute's family would wear a green headscarf.

So I guess, I'm a peace lover right? :)

“Green in nature is one thing, green in literature another. Nature and letters seem to have a natural antipathy; bring them together and they tear each other to pieces.” 

― Virginia Woolf

Love,

Girl With An Attitude

2016!

Hello there! Happy 2016!

So how was your New Years Eve party by the way? Mine was great. I spent my NYE with Krishna and my parents. We stayed at Hotel Citra Dream Bintaro, which I think was nice. For me, spent time with the loved ones was truly blessed.

Speaking about 2016, about the New Year, what is your goal? Is there any wishes or something? I'm sure you all have it. And so do I. 

If you ask me what is my wish or goal on this 2016, is to be pregnant! Yes, Krishna and I are really wanna have a baby. Hopefuly it will be come true, amen.

On this New Year, do you have any idea to make your life more exciting or to make this world a better place? A wise man said that 'Eveything begins with an idea'. You have an idea, you create it, you make it happen, than voila, you feel like you're an amazing person!

So tell me, what's your idea on 2016?

Love,

Girl With An Attitude