If you see this 'If I Stay' movie, you should see and listen when Mia's mom told her about this :
"You're going to go to Julliard and play the hell out of your cello. Or, you're not. You're gonna stay with Adam and have lots of amazing adventures. Or you're not. Or maybe tomorrow, the Earth's gonna smash into a meteor, or it's not. Life is this big fat gigantic stinking mess. But that's the beauty of it too. Whatever you do, I support you. Either way, you win. And also either way there's something that you lose. What can I say, baby? True love's a bitch".
I can see myself in the future, as a parent, as a Mom, would do the same :)
Girl With An Attitude